Pictured above: the boys from Spain and China meet the animals.
We gained another temporary son last week. Martin, who hails
from a seaside community on the northern coast of Spain , is living with us for the
month of September. Upon arrival, Martin, a slim handsome boy with brown hair,
brown eyes and braces on his teeth put his hands lightly on my shoulders and
kissed one of my cheeks, then the next. “Nice to meet you,” he said, in the
sweetest Spanish accent.
It soon became apparent that Martin’s English was quite
advanced. He was here not to study but to experience. Unlike our Chinese boy
John who is from the big city, Martin is from a village of “5,000 people in
summer, and only a few people in winter.” His father is a pediatrician and his
mother an OB-GYN. He has no idea what he wants to do when he grows up. I told
him he has time. He is 14 years old, in Grade 9.
The first week was a bit exhausting as school began the day
after Martin arrived. Although his English is quite good, when thrown into an
English world it is still stressful and tiring to communicate and understand at
times.
While our Chinese son John is thoroughly plugged in with his
new Canadian SIM card in his beloved i-Phone, so that he can talk on We-Chat (a
Chinese version of Skype) at any hour of the day, Martin only uses his phone to
play a couple of video games or listen to music. And he doesn’t go near the
computer. He spends his time at home in Spain playing basketball, football
(soccer) and riding his bicycle. We spent his first evening here looking at his
family photos of trips they have taken all over Europe .
But it was the photos of his seaside village near Bilboa that most intrigued
me. I have my eye on one of those beach houses and would love to visit one day.
On the evening of the first day of school, we packed Martin
and his good friend Michal and John with his best friend Jerry in the back of
the Explorer and headed off to the Ottawa
67s game. They had never seen a live game of hockey before. Not exactly a
frequent spectator myself, I had to call my sister for advice on wardrobe. She
confirmed that although it was quite warm outside, we would need long pants and
sweaters and maybe a blanket too. I grabbed one small lap blanket for each boy
and although they looked at me strangely, they certainly appreciated it when
they first walked into the rink and drew a breath of icy air.
“It doesn’t get this cold in Spain ,” one of the boys said. I
told him I thought it probably did, as they had a light dusting of snow in
winter; about the same amount as Vancouver , and Qingdao , for that matter.
From the first few bars of the national anthem to the last
slash at the puck in the first period, the boys barely took their eyes off the
ice. It was kind of surreal hearing the same sort of exclamation in English,
Spanish and Chinese every time someone slammed into the boards.
On the intermission, I turned around to notice John and
Jerry had disappeared. Then I heard a bit of a ruckus in the hall going down to
the changerooms. They had been stopped by a security guard at the door. I
retrieved them and told them to tell me before they go wandering again but when
paired with someone who speaks their language I sort of disappear into the mist.
I recognized Coach Brian “Killer” Kilrea and told him I
remember going to the 67s games with my father. Dad’s favourite players were
the scrappers, of course, and I reminded the retired coach of Lance Galbraith,
one of the best. He also remembered the Farmer’s cousin Mark Paterson, who he
said was one of the toughest guys on the team in the 80s.
After the game Coach Kilrea made a point of coming right
over to our group to ask the boys how they liked their first hockey game. I
thought that was pretty nice. It will definitely be an experience they take
home with them and remember for years to come.
Now they all want to buy hockey jerseys to hang on their
bedroom walls. I’m going to push the Senators brand.
Email: dianafisher1@gmail.com.
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